How to be a single parent

 Single parenting

Don't read today's article as just an article.

Rather, look at it with the eye of the heart, the eye that can see an innocent,a life full of innocence that God places in our hands.And the name of this life is our children.

Children brought up only under the shadow of the father have a completely different nature.Because they have not seen the mother's lap and her love.So such children do not understand the importance of relationships.

This is the reason why they always fail to build good relationships.

Causes and effects of single parenthood

In the society we live in, relationships are given a lot of importance.

Especially when the relationship is parental.The mutual relationship and cooperation of the parents greatly influences the personality of the child.

Fights between parents and sometimes these arguments lead to separation, and have a very negative impact on children that impact a failure of getting over heartbreak and inability to control the senses.

At every point of life, a child feels a sense of deprivation

Even in school, answering questions from friends is no less than a test for him.

Many questions arise in his little heart like everyone's parents live together, why don't my parents live together?

Other children's parents give them gifts, why not my parents?

Why don't both my mom and dad get together on my birthday and be happy?

All children's parents come to drop them off from school, why not mine?

When he does not get the answers to all these questions, the process of continuous disintegration starts within him.

This affects the emotional and social lives of children.

It controls almost every part of their lives, they grow up differently, so children become depressed and detached from their social eyes.

Parents divorce has made them emotional and bitter because they can never tell anyone what was going on. so it makes them very angry.

They are trying to deal with their pain, and do not understand why they 

are running away.

Boys tend to be more idle in young adulthood.

This includes things like being unproductive and even dropping out of school.

Boys are more likely to have it, it can happen to girls too.

Innocent girls are at high risk of teenage pregnancy.

In case of separation or divorce between the parents, the child can stay either with

the mother or with the father only.

In all these situations, the child is always mentally disturbed in the court procedure.

Thus, the life of a single parent child remains a question mark.

Until the future custody of the child is decided and the better future of the child is at stake.

We should think very seriously about this issue, why many married couples get

fed up with small talk and problems and go to the court to separate from each other.

Even they are tired of each other or want to enjoy adventure somehow, so there is no fault divorce is ready for their adventurous nature.

Differential effects of both mother and father being

singletons on child personality:

How to become a single mom

If the mother is a single parent and the responsibility of the child is on her.

Then she will try her best.

This effort is in place but such children lack confidence Because the child always

takes this tendency to build trust and social connections from his father.

A child brought up only under the shadow of the mother lacks judgment and does

not have the courage to stand up for important decisions in life.

Very feeble minded due to mental conflict.

Such children, even if they make a decision, they cannot do it on time,

due to which success eludes them. Note that this child failure is only due

to single parenting.

How to be a single father

On the other hand, if the father is single, he also has all the responsibility

of raising his children and he also tries hard to fulfill this responsibility.

Children brought up only under the shadow of their fathers are completely different.

They become rigid and insensitive.

This is the reason why such children do not understand the importance of relationships.

This is the reason why they always fail to form relationships.

They do not trust anyone and view everyone with suspicion.

Being overly suspicious, they tend to suffer from psychological problems.

But some of them may be more inclined towards crime and towards the Addiction.

Sometimes,

a child carries a single parent even after the death of a parent.

Such children have a very noticeable difference in their nature, because they have

to stand on their own feet and all kinds of success to make life better by depending

on their hard work.

There is a confidence and a refinement in their personality that makes them

take bigger decisions and it helps in dealing with challenges.

In fact, such children have not seen the deprivation of their parents due to fight

or divorce.

In some cases, a single family household may be more beneficial.

When there is extreme conflict, violence or stress in a two parent home, a single

parent home is actually a much more beneficial environment for the child,

but it happens in rare cases.

Even if there is no divorce or separation, in the relationship between husband and

wife. Their repetition and fights also cause problems in the child's personality.

The odds of being responsible for your children as a single parent are very high.

More than the difficulties they faced together because of their fights.

Children brought up under the shadow of only their mother often lack the power of decision. They do not have enough courage to make important decisions in their life.

And then stick to them, such children usually suffer from mental conflict.

Single parent dating,

for the betterment of the child perhaps.

The importance of both mother and father for raising a

child is a fact that no research in the world can deny.

Marriage has great importance and respect.After the birth of children, parents should forget their tears and think about their child's future.

After the birth of children, the separate status of both ends and becomes collective.

If you do not come out of the shell of your self and ego, the child's personality will be destroyed. There can be no remedy for their deprivations.

For which only those parents who do not compromise are responsible, destroy their lives as well as their children.

So check before jumping to extremes of decisions,That the future of our children should not be ruined,otherwise, both the future and personality of the child can be shattered

After reading this article with your heart,feel the heartache after reading this,now take a decision with your hand on your heart.