Marriage annulment-don't scatter your nest
Is divorce the solution to every problem?
How many tears, how many joys, wishes, many hopes, dreams and interpretations make a relationship.
Then it happens that minor problems turn into serious situations.
Mistrust, misunderstanding, selfishness and a twinge of doubt can break this beautiful relationship.
Meanings of words change the nature and circumstances of a relationship. One word manipulation becomes a lifelong regret, the resulting effects destroy human life. And that world's ugly word is divorce.
The whole world is a society and in this society social and economic problems have ruined peace of mind. Individuals feel pressured by household responsibilities and constant exhaustion leads to fights. Stress is manifested by irritability.
A person's ability to think and understand is temporarily lost due to which the happy relations of the members of the house cannot be maintained, and he makes decisions that cannot be reversed because during this agonizing decision, some people even blindly hire a divorce lawyer.
Marriage dissolution :
1. Remember that change does not happen suddenly, our feelings are hidden somewhere in the thought of accepting it. Divorce does not happen suddenly usually, husband and wife create favorable conditions to reach this point through their ignorance.
2. Relationships are not built by suddenly setting high expectations, but a plant of love and loyalty bears fruit through continued irrigation.
3. Changes resulting from globalization have also led to a reduction in home values and mission warmth.
4. When girls and boys put more miles away as a result of girls getting more education and then getting jobs, both feel they have more choices. And sometimes, Irrational thoughts arise in the mind, don't you?, but others. This thinking causes avoidance of serious relationships and responsibilities like marriage. Employed and educated women do not tolerate violence by men, then she cannot live with such a person.
5. Sometimes it is exaggerated, say women, to gain the cheap reputation of certain organizations under the fake name of the patient, that women begin to struggle for their rights and status in society, which destroys homes.
6. Sometimes childlessness or physical incapacity also leads to divorce.
7. If both husband wife are earners, then there's decrease in mutual understanding after marriage.
Both get used to living their lives according to their ideas.
8. Men express outside problems by coming home. There is a complaint posted in the office, a friend has taken a loan and has not returned it.
Inflation is increasing, there are traffic jams in many places and then after reaching home, many problems of wife and children, lots of fatigue and need for sleep.
How long can a man remain normal after going through these situations and take
out his frustration on his wife and children while the women tell the problems of
the day to the husband which leads to fights.
9. Social and economic problems destroy peace of mind and responsibilities
and constant exhaustion also lead to fights.
10. Mass media also has a very rapid impact on people's minds especially
a large number of women watch programs from other countries and in their
dramas women are presented as a glamorized independent role model, with
these kinds of ideas and ideals housewives want to be mentally screened.
Due to all these reasons some questions arise in our mind
Is there a lack of education and training?
The traditional system of home education is getting weaker and no new system has been introduced.
Teach your children that marriage is not just a romantic relationship or a selfish gratification.
Instead of thinking about everything personally, the resources and problems
of life should be developed together.
It should be taught that it is very wrong to desire a lame lifestyle.
To understand your life without it and to make your life partner feel inferior to others.
Respecting and trusting each other is the greatest achievement and the guarantee
of happiness.
In what spirit was the foundation of the relationship between them
laid?
Appearances are prioritized and at the same time luster becomes a difference
between the two and becomes an ego problem.
Then stubbornness and ego are countered by stubbornness. Often women find
Lame excuses for separation like,"my husband is so lazy I want a divorce".
Are outsiders sometimes the cause of separation?
Both husband and wife have separate relatives and friends.
Whenever the two allow any relative or friend to interfere in trivial matters,
problems usually arise. Often these outsiders exacerbate their conflict by creating inefficiencies.
Mostly outsiders are not interested in your severance annulment.
External intervention should occur when both parties need their help.
The pain of divorce :
Poverty or lack of money, population growth and unemployment.
All these reasons have become very painful. Due to these reasons, many women
are subjected to domestic violence even today.
They are tortured mentally and physically so much that they are forced to divorce.
Children bear the brunt of separation or its aftermath.
It is the most painful process for children which breaks their personality.
In the case of divorce, however, more pain comes to the part of the girl.
A slight slip-up leaves ill effects for generations.
Life after marriage and conclusion:
It should be remembered that just as a lie is not born. The relationships built
on it is also unsustainable.
True relationships are always rewarded with happiness and peace.
Marriage is a contract in partnership where when one party's intention is bad,
both parties are harmed.
Unnecessary thrill, adventure and the desire for experiments also break
people's homes where only broken thresholds and houses made of cement remain.
Achieving happiness should be the top priority of married life, but remember
that life is not a bed of roses.
Divorce does not suddenly reach the point of separation.
Usually both the husband and wife create all these situations through their
ignorance to reach this point.
If both prefer the other, be flexible to achieve the goal of peace and happiness.
If you practice patience and tolerance, it is definitely possible to achieve
domestic comfort and a broken nest can be saved and become a home.
For the sake of this little life, for the sake of your children, fill the
courtyard of your house with the flowers of happiness and peace.
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